Bippity, boppity, boo: a Cinderella birthday

CinderellaI am now the mother of a 5-year-old.  That sounds so unreal even to write.

I thought I’d share some behind-the-scenes pics of the birthday party that my sweet girl and I put together.  What began as simply having three or four friends over grew to be quite the shindig.  It was a fun creative project for us that, interspersed with Chanukah and Thanksgiving decorating, gave us weeks of discussing ideas and putting the details together.

Since I think the anticipation of something is often better than the actual event, I wanted my daughter to appreciate the details of her party and really look forward to it.  And I know she did because the morning of the party, she woke up and immediately began singing, “Today’s the big day!” and skipping around the house.

Cinderella how to board

We decided to have the party at our house and to invite Cinderella to come as a surprise for our little guests, and she, of course, would need a place to park her pumpkin coach.

Carriage Parking

Oh my goodness… as I was putting this out and it was 34 freakin degrees, the wind picked up and the entire thing tried toppling over.  You should’ve seen me trying to get that red paper to stay down with just cat food cans as weights.  And then it started sprinkling rain.  But it all worked out with duct tape and some trusting.

Making outside decor

Another fun decoration was the table of photos of the birthday girl each year up to this year, even an ultrasound picture as a “sneak preview” that the guests just could not get their mind around.Table of photos

We set up the dining room for snacks and cake.
Tables

I found a balloon banner tutorial on Pinterest here.  Basically, you string groups of 3 or 4 balloons together, tie them together, and then connect the groups in one long strip.Making balloon bannerBalloon banner

We added confetti to the tables.  Yes, they make Cinderella confetti.  Oriental Trading folks.  When the little ladies arrived, my daughter gave each of them a magic wand.Confetti and wands

We (and by “we” I mean “I”) glued jewels to the forks and cups.Table decor

Upon arrival, each girl got to make a bead necklace and bracelet.  Bead table

The idea was to keep them from doing this once they heard that Cinderella was coming … Watching

Everyone said “Bippity boppity boo” in unison and waved their magic wands in the air and then Cinderella came through the front door.  She was awesome in how she greeted my daughter and crowned her the birthday princess of the day.  She led games and dancing before we all settled down for a story and snacks.  Of course she had to change some of the words (“Cinderella” became “I,” etc.) and she asked fun questions too to engage the girls.CinderellaShoes

I tried making fruit wands with grapes, strawberries, and a watermelon star on top.  They were droopy since I made them the night before.Fruit wands

And now the best part.  Oh, this cake.  My friend Becky made it and it was beautiful.  She is beginning her own business so I’ll add the link here as soon as her website is finished.  Everything she creates is just gorgeous (and tastes good too)!Cake tableCaketiaraCupcakesDecorations

Ta da! It was fun and I have a boatload of pictures and memories of my daughter smiling and laughing with her girlfriends.  I hope you enjoyed seeing her special day.

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What do you love about yourself?

Brene authenticityLet’s celebrate our talents and strengths today.  Of course, you have accomplishments.  But what about something that you just are? What are some positive qualities of you that make you who you are?

  • I love that I’m compassionate, intuitive, and idealistic.
  • I love my sarcastic sense of humor.
  • I love my intensity and commitment to hard work.
  • I love that I’m good at paying bills and keeping our budget.
  • I love that I’m a homebody, an introvert, and an HSP.
  • I love being a mother — caring for someone else and being an ambassador of the world.
  • I love my creativity and natural affinity for art.
  • I love that I am constantly growing and learning.
  • I love that I can make a to-do list for the day and then spontaneously change it.

OK what about you? Please share your goodness with us!

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New artsy products

I heard about Society 6 from a friend and had to try it.  You upload your photos or art and they make tote bags, iphone cases, greeting cards, mugs, throw pillows, etc. from them! I ordered a tote bag, some cards, and an iphone case and I absolutely love them.  I’m happy having my art be useful in this way.

iphone case backjourne cardsjourney totejourney tote sideEverything is made very well and I’ve been happy with the quality.  Fun stuff!

JOY3 canvas

I have four  now three canvases that I made last winter with Christmas scrapbook paper that say JOY.  (Enter the giveaway to win one of them here.) They are in my Etsy shop and I’d like to either sell them or give them away this season.

I was thrilled to give one away to a family whose apartment burned down just as their daughter went in to labor with a baby girl.  As I was gathering together what baby clothes I still had in the attic, I figured a JOY sign might bring them comfort as well.

And just for fun, I resized photos of them to be mugs, bags, laptop skins, and pillows on Society 6.  JOY products

And how cool is this? Remember my CREATE sign I made? I now have a mug of that too!

Create mug

You can check out all the art and products here.

Thanks for reading.  🙂

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A “joy”ful giveaway

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“True happiness comes from the joy of deeds well done, the zest of creating things new.”
~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery 

I made four of these canvas lettered signs last year and had hoped to sell them in my Etsy shop.  I gave one away to a local family who recently had an apartment fire and lost everything, and I would like to give another one away to one of you!

joy detailPlease leave a comment here telling us how you are going to make this holiday season joyful (and hopefully as low-stress as possible).  I’ll select a random winner by next Friday.

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Best of luck!

Update: Since there were exactly 3 commentors, I sent each of them one of my remaining JOY signs.

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November reading update

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November was a great month for reading, mostly right before bed.  I’m already into two new and excellent soul-stirring works to tell you about in the next update.  Enjoy! Oh, and I really do love when you recommend books to me.  Thank you, thank you, thank you!


The Signature of All Things: A Novel by Elizabeth Gilbert

This book is so absorbing… a world unto itself that I enjoyed entering and did not want to leave.  I enjoyed the characters, especially Alma, the main character, who lives an unconventional life for her time.  There is so much to learn about by reading this book: botany, illustration, 19th century travel or the roles of women, languages, and so much more.  The characters are strongly drawn and left me wanting more.  Highly recommend this one.

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One People, Two Worlds: A Reform Rabbi and an Orthodox Rabbi Explore the Issues That Divide Them by Ammiel Hirsch and Yosef Reinman

I read this one for our synagogue’s book club.  A Reform Rabbi (Ammiel Hirsch) and an Orthodox Rabbi (Yosef Reinman) are introduced by a mutual friend and begin an e-mail correspondence on the fundamental principles of Jewish faith and practice.

A few months back, our rabbi had a sermon about  some of the Orthodox policies in Israel and I was shocked that their actions could be justified to them as holy.  Some of the Orthodox positions he described seemed violent and something only people who were completely isolated from the modern world would consider.

I was disappointed by this book in that it didn’t always seem that the two rabbis were on the same topic.  I think these two rabbi’s willingness to become friends and to debate the opposing arguments is wonderful, really.  Maybe had their conversation taken place in person it would have been more consistent.  I thought Reinman brought up references that Hirsch either didn’t respond to or answered with more of an emotional story, either because he didn’t know them or didn’t want to get into it, which made him look less scholarly to me.  Any reference to Torah or Talmud that Hirsch discussed was expounded upon by Reinman much better, in my opinion.  An Orthodox Rabbi, or the Orthodox Movement in general, is still unlikely to recognize Reform Judaism and that only leads to resentment, which I thought came out in Hirsch’s writing.

I don’t know that these two will come to much agreement.  Rationalizing Reform Judaism to an Orthodox rabbi seems pointless to me.  Someone Orthodox would probably believe without question that God sets our laws through the Torah and we should not go about reinterpreting them at will.

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The Unfinished Work of Elizabeth D.: A Novel by Nichole Bernier

This was such a fun and quick read! A woman inherits her best friend’s journals and learns about who her friend was behind the mask of motherhood and politeness.  You never really know what your legacy will be once you’re gone.  How do you want to be remembered? Do you think what people perceive of you is the truth?

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Listening to Whales: What the Orcas Have Taught Us by Alexandra Morton

I was captivated by Morton’s interest and research in dolphins and whales.  Her stories are fascinating.  I love learning about how these magnificent mammals communicate, mate, and feed.  Morton has lived an interesting life so far as a scientist and lover of nature.  This book was an engaging story well-told.  Since reading so many books about Orcas in captivity and in the wild, I don’t honestly know if I can go to Sea World again.  Ignorance was definitely bliss.

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Light Years by James Salter

I wish I could remember where this book was recommended so I could go back and see why I wanted to read it.  Salter is an extraordinary writer, but the two main characters in this novel were so unlikeable to me that I could not read past page 94.  With a tall stack of other books waiting to be read, this one just didn’t hook me.  The way the text flowed felt to me like I was reading it with a fever or something… I couldn’t always follow it… probably my own issue.

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The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are by Brené Brown

I bought my copy of this book when Brené gave a talk here in Houston, where she’s from anyway, and I was impressed and engaged more than enough to want to read more.  In this book, her third, Brené shares ten guideposts “on the power of Wholehearted living—a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness.” Prompted by this book, I wrote about my struggles with perfectionism here last week.

To read previous posts on books, please click here.

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December 1 OLW blog hop: appreciating everyday blessings

OLWbloghop_LOGO_zps1135306cWelcome to December!!! Holy moly, that’s nuts.  I hope you’ve had a relaxing week.

Our assignment: use photos as a way to connect with your word this month by either going back through your own photos since we did something similar in April or taking new ones as a reflection of where you are with your word at this time of the year.

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This time of year is another opportunity to practice gratitude and to check in with ourselves and see how we’ve progressed (or not) with our personal goals.  I think I’m much calmer than I was at this time last year, and part of the reason is my chosen word, stillness.  Far more frequently than ever before, I notice special moments and pause to appreciate them and really savor them.  I know more than ever how blessed I am to have such a positive mental perspective, a loving and giving family, an abundant home, and cherished people and experiences.

Stillness through nature: I filled our backyard with twinkle lights to bring joy throughout the year; driving home one evening recently, I noticed a very vocal meeting of these birds; this past week, my daughter and I took a walk through every pile of crunchy leaves we could find.

Appreciating everyday moments: I am grateful to have art supplies, a camera, and my computer, as well as time to share my thoughts and creativity here on the blog; On Thanksgiving morning, my sweet girl went outside to get this huge newspaper full of ads and as she was walking into the house with it, I remembered a photo we have of my little sister at age 2 doing the same thing; dinner done by 9am – what’s not to appreciate about that? My mom sent me the recipe so I enjoyed thinking of her and all the meals she has made for us as I prepared this one.

Noticing the blessings: This cat simply does not sit on laps.  Period.  When I picked him up and practically stopped breathing so he would stay with me, I could not believe how lucky I was and had to try to get a picture to remember such a rare moment; this fountain helps me tune in to the sound of water, which is something that calms me; those little hands lighting the Chanukah candles fill me with awe.  She is growing up all of a sudden and I can’t believe how mature she is sometimes.

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Be sure to visit these other participants to see what everyone is up to. You can see other posts about my OLW project here.

Lee: http://thelinarstudio.typepad.com/embracelife/ (our amazing organizer!)

Cheri: http://cheriandrews.blogspot.com

Margareta: http://www.paperpilekitten.com/

Naomi: http://www.poeticaperture.com/ <— You are here.

Missus Wookie: mrswookieswanderings.blogspot.com

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Come back on Wednesday to see what I’ve been reading this month!

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