The Very Inspiring Blogger Award

My friend, former Build a Blog You Truly Love classmate, and fellow blogger Jess Morrow just awarded me the Very Inspiring Blogger award.  How wonderful and surprising!!! Jess’ blog, Invincible Summer, is about writing your story truthfully and authentically.  She offers e-courses as well a coaching and editing business.  Thank you, Jess!

One of the main reasons I love blogging is to inspire… myself as well as all of my readers.  This award means a great deal to me.  Thank you all for continuing to follow along!

Coincidentally, I got this Note from the Universe right before I got Jess’ note about this award:

“Have you ever considered, Naomi, that having aced time and space again and again and again, with more “gold medals” than you know who, you’re here this time simply for the love of the game? Just to smell the dirt? To lend a hand? Give comfort? And maybe for old times’ sake, to manifest a fabulous, inspiring blog like it was a morning cup of coffee, even though you’re way past having to prove anything?”

One of my recent creations

The rules: 

  1. Display the award logo on your blog.
  2. Link back to the person who nominated you.
  3. State 7 things about yourself.
  4. Nominate 15 other bloggers for this award and link to them.
  5. Notify those bloggers of the nomination and the award’s requirements.

About me:
1. I am an avid reader.  (The WordPress Weekly Photo Challenge this week is GROWTH.  I wasn’t sure I would be able to participate this week due to time constraints, but why not include my picture here? I went to the library on Friday afternoon, came home and added those seven books to my growing tower of library books I have checked out (no, there is no way I can read all these before they are due), stacked them on a mirror, and there’s my growth picture!
2. My favorite ice cream flavor is Peanut Butter and Chocolate.
3. I don’t like sitting with my back to a crowd.  In a restaurant, I like to be against a wall.
4. I rode a tandem bike in a century (100 mile race).  That feels like a former life.
5. I worked in a stationary store for a few months.  Other past jobs are helping in an eye doctor’s office, camp counselor, and bed and breakfast do-it-all assistant.
6. I used to be really good at math but recently it’s been eluding me.  My brain hurts when I try calculating anything more than simple addition.  You should have seen how mad I was at myself when I was trying to reverse calculate the cost of a kilowatt hour of electricity based on our latest bill.  I took calculus for goodness sake!
7. My favorite class in college was Intro to Neuropsychology.  I got an A.
Inspirational bloggers getting this award:
3. Stacie Jewelry – Stacie Spencer
4. Paisley Rain Boots – Sarah Huizenga
5. NancyJean’s Creative Thoughts – Nancy Thompson
6. Desktop Dreams – Viv Halliwell
7. Figuring Out 40 – Katrina Simeck
8. Nordljus – Katja
9. Art is my Sanity – Belen Kundt
10. A Thousand Shades of Grey – Jill Salahub
11. Dandelion Seeds and Dreams – Lis Offman
12. The Painted Flower – Jennifer Bomgardner
Whew… I think I can, I think I can…
13. Softly Piqued Lens – Sherri Brannon
14. Shimmering Grains – Marie Westerbom
15. Ooh La La Living the Arty Life – Susan Lobb Porter
I hope you’ll enjoy each of these lovely blogs.
Congratulations, friends
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How not to lose your mind raising children

All of a sudden, there’s space. Glorious empty space for breathing and relaxing into, like a large soft chair with a chenille blanket and a cup of chamomile tea offering cozy reflection time. I’m not sure what prompted the shift in perspective, for that’s exactly what it is… A different way of processing pretty much exactly the same circumstances.


Sweet girl still needs me as much (dare I say “more than”?) as always, asking for my time and attention and dreading separations, but I don’t mind anymore.  I seem to have acquired the ability to distance myself from the emotion that is this three and a half year old spinning ball of energy and moods, yet still observe and respond as need requires, like before. Is this the observer mind that my mindfulness books speak of? I wonder only because I don’t feel detached or distant… I love her more fiercely and completely today than yesterday, if that’s possible.  All of a sudden, I appreciate who she is in and of herself and love watching her grow and change.


There are some circumstances that prompt an ironic wink or a conspiratorial chuckle from deep within.  I can’t seem to find the familiar feelings of frustration and anger when my daughter changes her mind yet again, as she often does.  I see myself as part of a motherhood chain that goes back through time. Surely I am the same prehistoric mother who had to run back into the cave for her child’s forgotten security object (perhaps a spoon? A leaf? I don’t know… Were kids allowed childhoods back then or were they put right to work?)


I’ve tried for all these days to get beyond my limitation of exasperation and that sense that too much is being taken from me (time, energy, physical space) with not nearly enough left for myself or anyone else… when I would carry a magazine article around all day but not get even a few minutes to read it, or wanting a lazy day when I didn’t have to entertain another person with craft projects, snacks and meals, fun outings or educational teachings.


Sure, I still want those things. But all of a sudden, I see this little person as transient, growing up all too soon and off to live her own life away from me.  I have heard from enough empty nesters to realize that the gift of witnessing a childhood should not be wished away.  So I am noticing and reveling in all of it… the irrational outbursts, the prideful accomplishments, the firsts and seconds and even the mundane thirds, with a sense of humor and perspective.  About time!

I don’t have to solve her “problems” or heal her wounds.  She simply needs me to be there.  My presence, my attention, my enfolding arms are the most important right now.

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Ch ch changes

Friends,
I decided to switch to a self-hosted platform in order to customize some design changes (coming soon!) and to secure the site.  Unfortunately, this requires you to RE-SUBSCRIBE by selecting the option on the right sidebar.   
If you are following me on WordPress.com, I don’t think my posts will continue to show up in your Reader.  🙁  Would you please consider receiving posts by e-mail or subscribing to the RSS feed in a reader?
I don’t want to lose any of you! Please take a moment to resubscribe now.
Thank you so much!
Love,
Naomi
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Photo-Heart Connection, journal love, and Weekly Photo Challenge

This is a catch-all post for three different fun projects: the Photo-Heart Connection, some journal photos that a group of friends and I are all posting and sharing, and the WordPress Weekly Photo Challenge.  I hope it doesn’t get too long!

My choice for the Photo-Heart Connection for July was tough… on the return flight home from Chicago last week, I took many photos of clouds from my little window seat.  There were so many different types and colors all layered together and I thought it looked magical.  The one below looked sort of like a little tunnel from a stormy situation into brightness.  Then I got to my car and was exiting the parking lot and saw the one immediately below, with a lovely rim light giving special contrast to the separation of the grey clouds and the bright blue sky.  And I drove through those storm clouds and rain toward sunshine where I got to reunite with my sweet girl.

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“Journal writing is a voyage to the interior.” ~ Christina Baldwin

Some friends are doing a party this week of pictures of our journals… we were chatting in our Facebook group about being obsessed with them.  I learned I’m not alone in admiring them, buying them, and then not wanting to sully them with my scribblings.  This could probably be a post in and of itself, but I already have next week’s posts scheduled so we’ll just include it here.  

There’s just a sense of promise, of beginning, of possibility with a brand new and beautifully covered book, don’t you think?

 

All these pretty covers and yet I began by using boring spiral notebooks…

I have several travel journals where I pasted ticket stubs, brochures, cards, etc. and wrote about all the inspiration I was seeing around me.  I even found an old Lira note.

I’m sure you all have a journal or two, right? If you like, share how you use them (or not) and what they mean to you.

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The WordPress Weekly Photo Challenge is PURPLE.  Well, by the time you read this, I’ll probably be behind again, but here ya go…

My favorite color!

 

 

 

 

Whew! Have a lovely weekend, friends.  Come back on Monday for a post I’m excited to share with you about how a tiny shift in persecutive can change absolutely everything!

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Mindfulness music – August 1 OLW blog hop

This post is part of the One Little Word Blog Hop where members of Ali Edwards’ OLW class share their monthly assignments or something about their word.  Each month, on the 1st of the month, I’ll participate and then give you a link to the next in line (see the full list of participants at the end of this post).

Our assignment for July was to create a personal playlist for our word.  I’ve thought about “mindful” all month when in the car listening to music or even tuning in more when shopping since some stores play music.  Some of these songs are about paying attention to the present moment and some are simply inspiring to me right now.  Sometimes thinking about why a song is meaningful to you can lead to interesting revelations.  Ali told us it’s more about feeling and emotion than finding the perfect song.

 

1) Each and every time I hear this song, actually written by Bob Thiele and George David Weiss, I appreciate the physical world around me and how remarkable nature can be.

2) I’ve always loved the melody, but the words remind me, at least this month, to keep pursuing dreams and keep the faith that small wrinkles will get ironed out.

3) Simply true of me.  I think this came up in one of the Inner Excavation chapters and I decided to embrace this aspect of myself rather than try to change it.

4) A friend reminded me recently of a biblical teaching.  Each of us has two pockets, each containing a slip of paper.  On one should be written: I am but dust and ashes, and on the other: The world was created for me.  The secret of living comes from knowing when to reach into each.  The first phrase is spoken by Abraham when he realizes that he’s bargaining with God over Sodom and Gomorrah.  The second phrase is from the Talmud, illustrating that we are all unique individuals, though we are formed from the same mould.  We have worth as individuals and yet we are no more special than the next person.  I also love the that nothing in creation is an accident.  Did Chris Martin mean all this? Who knows.  See #3.

5) Hearing the peppy beat of this song simplifies my day.

6) The Shema is the most important prayer of the Jewish worship service and is also recited in the morning upon rising and in the evening before sleep.  Two reasons it’s related to mindfulness for me… First, my parents taught us to say it before bed every night as kids, and they would listen patiently afterward as we would spout off blessings for practically everyone we knew (“God bless Mommy and Daddy and grandma and grandpa and the grocery store clerk and my teacher and Kenny and Kenny’s mommy and …”).  Also, in the worship service, no matter who is following along in the prayer book and who is not paying attention, it seems that everyone pauses when it’s time to recite the Shema.  I close my eyes and hear the entire congregation singing the words together.  I picture Jews all the world over saying the same prayer and I feel solidarity and calmness.

7) I like the idea of “she’ll make her way” by pursuing these qualities.

8) A great reminder that if we just keep putting one foot in front of the other, trusting that it’ll be ok, it often will.

9) This goes back to the idea that there are no coincidences.  Love that!

I’m so glad to be part of this blog hop!  Some of the artwork these ladies do is just incredible! Now, hop along to visit Veronica for the next OLW post.  She (and each thereafter) will send you on down the list from there until you’ve seen them all.  The rest of the participants are listed below.  I encourage you to visit every blog for more creative fun.

You can read other posts related to my OLW here.

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August 1 OLW Blog Hop Participant List

Margie    http://xnomads.typepad.com

Kara    http://iwannabemewhenigrowup.blogspot.com

Monica    http://scrapinspired.com/tag/one-little-word/

Lisa    http://backtoallen.com/category/challenges/one-little-word/

Donna    http://holimess.blogspot.com/

Mrs. Wookie    http://mrswookieswanderings.blogspot.com/

Monica B     http://questtoperfectimperfection.blogspot.com

Ruth        http://suburbansahm.blogspot.com

Naomi    http://poeticaperture.com/ <— You are here.

Veronica    www.veronicanorris.typepad.com <— Go here next!

Carolina    www.micinnamons.blogspot.com

Cindy    http://seriousplay.typepad.com

Kelly    http://mindingmynest.com

Brighton    www.simplebrighton.com

Nikki    http://www.inkyart.com.au

Amanda    http://scrappnbee.blogspot.com

Tere    http://terecontodomicorazon.blogspot.com/

Cheri    http://cheriandrews.blogspot.com

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Paris in July

For some reason over the past few months, I have been thinking about my trips to Paris.  I’ve also been seeing Paris images absolutely everywhere… on clothing, decorative trays, clocks, napkins, boxes.  So when I noticed that a couple of book bloggers were having a Paris in July blog party, I wanted to play along too! (See that post for the specific guidelines.)

They have been posting weekly Paris/French-related fun and reading the comments has been amazing too… seeing what everyone else has been reading and cooking and crafting.  I encourage you to check out this post for all the info about it.  I believe I’m the 80th participant.  WOWZERS!

For the challenge, I created a Paris-themed canvas just for fun, read two books, and gathered my Paris books for a photo.

I have been having some crafty fun over here… I included three actual photos from our Paris trips on the canvas.  Shakespeare and Company is my absolute favorite store in the entire world, so I had to include one of those from our 2007 trip.  And two from 2010: the building where we had our wine course and a pic of me sitting in Le Quartier Latin to check our guidebook for an address.  The rest of it is a collage of paint, tapes, buttons, stickers, and papers with some textured gel medium on top.

 

Since I read both to learn something new and to enjoy a little escape to a new place, the two books I read this month were right up my alley.  (Where does that expression even come from? I could say they were right on my nightstand and be more accurate.  Ahem.)

Paris in Love: A Memoir by Eloisa James is a lighthearted memoir about her year-long sabbatical in Paris with her family.  She was free to do whatever she liked and I enjoyed hearing about it all: her children’s experiences in school, her culinary adventures, her fashion observations.  It’s a quick read and quite touching at times.  I could definitely see some of her short observations being entertaining Facebook status updates.  I must say, I love reading travel narratives and this one does not disappoint.  It’s an excellent depiction of an American’s daily life in Paris, with lots of laugh-out-loud passages.

Dreaming in French: The Paris Years of Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy, Susan Sontag, and Angela Davis by Alice Kaplan tells the stories of three American women who spent a year studying abroad in Paris.  I am amazed at how transformative their Paris year(s) were for these women and how different their experiences were.  Three different generations… a debutante, an intellectual and a political activist.  What strikes me is that for each of them, it was leaving home and experiencing a foreign city that helped mold them into the famous individuals they each became.

 

See all the other Paris in July posts here.

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